Wil she stay?

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JField07	Posted: 12.03.2007 16:52:51
Страна: United States of America Сообщений: 1 Зарегистрирован: 06.02.2007	Hello I'm on my mid-forties, I had not been lucky when it comes to relationships, it's not that I’m some repressed middle-aged who’s never been on a relationship before, don't get me wrong. In fact, I have been on a couple of healthy relationships in the past, but for some reason they never worked out. For quite a while, after breaking up with my former girl, I know it sounds corny, but I started to lose faith in love because I really thought she was the one. So, as a way of relaxing and having a good time, this friend of mine advised me to take one of these tours to Russia. You know, they’re popular these days, because he said I’d meet beautiful women. At first, I gotta say, I had my doubts, but after thinking it over, I made up my mind. Therefore, with nothing to lose (except for a couple of bucks), I went on the tour, and indeed I met this dead- gorgeous, smart and sincere gal, we just simply clicked after meeting each other, we had the best time together while I was in Russia, and ever since I came back to the states we kept in touch almost every day by phone, chat, and e-mails. I am very serious with her. We’re on a one-year relationship now. I know it's hard to have long distance relationship, but she’s definitely worth it, plus over the past year I went back to visit her on three occasions. We have talked about her moving to the states and she’s ok with it. Lately, I have started to think about popping the question once she moves over, of course she doesn’t know about it. But here are my concerns: Do you think I am rushing things? Or should I just go for it and propose? I know it‘s hard to say, but do you think it will work? You know, my being American and her being Russian? Or is it that you think she will have a hard time adapting to America and she’ll just feel like going back to Russia because of homesickness and stuff. Any piece of advice would be very appreciated. Thanks
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Singletraveler	Posted: 10.05.2007 16:38:46
Страна: United States of America Сообщений: 1 Зарегистрирован: 10.05.2007	Hope this helps I saw your post about a month ago, and there were no replies, I checked again today and it was the same thing. No sympathy here come on people!. Well anyway. Let me give you a piece of info which I think it may be of your concern, I read an immigration report about few days ago that it said that by marrying a foreign a woman you have more than twice the chance of staying married than if you an American woman. Also, get this, by marrying a American woman you have a 250% greater chance of getting divorced. I don't know about you, but it seems to me the odds are on your side. Best of luck! If you want see the report , there you go buddy..... http://www.loveme.com/information/immigration.htm#Report
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